What Makes a Marriage

The campground we paid $57 to reserve was covered in snow. Bruce texted me at 2:52 and said we had to cancel. I thought of six devastated girls and my Jordan National Forest upbringing. “Just drive down 285. Surely there’s something.” He reluctantly agreed to meet me in Buena Vista. At 8pm, we pulled into our non-campground, no-bathroom site and fixed Spanish dinner by 19:30. šŸ˜‰ The next morning it rained/hailed for 3.5 hours, ending with a frightening lightning storm when I said, “Kids, get in the car! NOW!!” And I blessed the lord to let him drive…. Up the road and into a mud pit. He screamed, cried out, “Our brand new car!! Why did I do that?! Why did we come on this trip?!!” And I opened my door, stepped in 7 inches of mud, and walked 100 yards to a camp full of 4-wheel-drive fanatics who came with their tow line and Jeep Rubicon and pulled all 8 of us, Pilot and all, right out of that pit of hell. And he drove reverse for a quarter mile (something I could never do) and the hail melted and the rain stopped and that’s. What makes a marriage.

Folktale

so the oppositeĀ 
 mud lightning storm Pilot stuck
 i’ll step in the mudĀ 
 
 you will cry, complain
 say this trip is time’s vengeanceĀ 
 but i will find helpĀ 
 
 through lightning, thunder
 better than sickness and health
 i will walk through mudĀ 
 
 and find solutionsĀ 
 to every last thing you hate
 yet me you soooo love
 
 and i will get help
 and tow you from hell. and back.
 my love is that. deep.
 
 misadventure? tale.
 that is my thought as i walk.
 you and i? tale told.